Play is the occupation of children – a child’s work. Even if you don’t know much about the science behind how play impacts a child’s development, most parents instinctively know that children need to play.
This article is written by Meg Faure
In the first three years of a baby’s life, they are learning to master the world through movement, language and other cognitive skills. Developing self-esteem and a sense of accomplishment are also on their to-do list and you will see your little one working very hard to achieve these goals through play.
As modern parents, when we think play, we think toys or interaction with other little people. These are both great ways to play but it’ll come as no surprise that you are your child’s favorite toy. Just think of the squeals of delight when you are on the floor playing with your little one, in comparison to when they are left to play with a toy alone. Their joy is a cue that your child’s neurons are firing in a way that stimulates huge amounts of brain development and growth.
So, before you rush out and buy expensive toys bear in mind that you are really all your little one needs. Having said that, you might be scratching your head wondering how to play, let alone what to play. Playing is something most of us have forgotten how to do as adults but often it only takes a little nudge before you too experience the benefits of play with your little one: closeness, connection and pride.
In short, don’t shy away from play! Here are some ideas of what you toddler needs developmentally and how you can use play to encourage these skills:
- – Make believe play.
- In the third year of life, your toddler will start testing their understanding of roles, interactions and life through pretend play. Create a make-believe play box filled with pretend play items such as dolls, feeding bottles, spoons, cars, hats of various sorts, bags, old phones, glasses, dress up clothes, etc. Play with your toddler as he goes into different roles. Try to have two of each object (not necessarily identical) so you can follow their play and be part of their game. For example, when he picks up a toy phone, you do too and talk to him through the phone.
- – Social play.
- Your toddler is ready for cooperative social play with a friend. Set up play dates where your little one can engage with another toddler to discover and play games together. Bear in mind your toddler’s sensory profile, they may be slow to warm up on arrival but won’t want to leave. Other little ones might need a few visits to feel at ease. Read your little one’s cues and offer encouragement when you can.
- – Building forts.
- Building and construction are a wonderful way to develop spatial awareness and planning. Have a stack of blankets or sheets ready, pile up pillows and stuffed toys, Make a fort or tent with your little one, talking your way through it.
- – Ball skills.
- Toddlers love games of catch, kick and throw. These games provide the basis for gross motor and hand-eye skills used in all sorts of games and sports.
In addition to these ideas, you also have finger painting, simple puzzle building, chasing games (and more) to draw from as a way to spend meaningful time with your toddler. Most of all, have fun with your little one! Play, laugh, be silly and be present – whatever the game or kind of play, you will be doing the best for your toddler’s learning and development.
We are thrilled to announce Play Sense is launching in the UAE in partnership with the Wilson Centre.
Play Sense micro-playschools are the perfect bridge between home and preschool, where little ones between the ages of 2-4yrs can learn through our accredited play-based curriculum in the care of an exceptional teacher and in a nurturing environment.
The Wilson Centre is an inter-disciplinary therapy team providing professional, play-based therapies, inclusion support and child development expertise.
Together, we will be leading the future of early childhood education in the UAE!
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Are you struggling to play with your child? Are you constantly thinking of ideas you can do to stimulate them? Is it sometimes difficult to know what to play?
We have answers to all your questions! And can’t wait to make playtime fun and meaningful for you and your toddler.
Join our FREE interactive workshop to learn practical tips for making the most of play time with your child.
In this workshop you will learn:
- – Why play is important for your child’s development
- – The science of play – why it’s important for brain development
- – Everyday playfulness – how to find opportunities for play in your everyday routine
- – The power of imaginary play – how you can boost your child’s language, emotional and social skills with make believe play
- – Our list of top 5 toys for toddlers that every home should have.
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