You have to think about it from the point that your child’s age and developmental stage. how much exposure do they have and what is the lifestyle like at home, what are they looking up, want to buy them, and how you are responding to him. Poor regulation skills mean that they just have not got those skills yet a lot of it comes down to how many opportunities you give your child to build them up. we do not learn any skill in the book unless we repeat that skill in order to enhance it.